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Domestic violence is pain that often remains hidden. It happens behind closed doors, in families that may look “perfect” from the outside. But the truth is, violence can affect anyone, and it slowly destroys lives, leaving scars that run deep.

October is the month when we shine a light on this issue worldwide. The color purple becomes a symbol of hope and support. It is our chance to say out loud: violence should never be the norm. And it is a reminder that silence does not mean safety — many suffer quietly, waiting to be heard.

What do we strive for this month?

• Acknowledgment. The first step is naming abuse for what it is, without excuses or denial.
• Awareness. Society must know about hotlines, shelters, crisis centers, and organizations that provide real help.
• Support. Simple words like “I am here for you” can mark the beginning of a new life for someone in danger.
• Change for the future. By raising children in a culture of respect, we build a generation free from fear.

Domestic Violence Awareness Month is also about reminding survivors that help exists. Volunteers, counselors, doctors, lawyers, and everyday people dedicate themselves to making sure survivors have a choice — the choice of safety, dignity, and a life without pain.

We must break the silence that has surrounded this issue for too long. Every word spoken, every campaign, every story shared makes a difference. The louder our voices become, the weaker violence grows.

 October in purple is the voice of millions. A voice that says: “You are not alone. We hear you. We stand with you.”

Every October, countries around the world observe Domestic Violence Awareness Month — a dedicated time to bring attention to one of society’s most damaging, yet often hidden, issues. The month is about raising awareness, supporting survivors, breaking the silence, and building stronger systems to prevent abuse and protect those at risk.

Understanding Domestic Violence

Domestic violence is not limited to physical harm. It can take many forms:

• Emotional abuse — constant criticism, humiliation, manipulation.
• Psychological abuse — threats, intimidation, isolation from friends and family.
• Financial abuse — controlling access to money, preventing employment, creating economic dependence.
• Sexual abuse — forcing sexual acts without consent.

The impact of abuse goes beyond visible injuries. It can leave lasting scars on mental health, erode self-esteem, and destroy a sense of safety and trust. Children who witness domestic violence are also deeply affected, often carrying the trauma into adulthood.

Why Victims Stay Silent

Many victims do not speak out due to fear of retaliation, financial dependence, emotional attachment, or cultural stigma. Some believe they will not be believed or that no one can help them. This silence often protects the abuser and prolongs the cycle of violence. Breaking that silence — by listening, believing, and supporting — is a crucial step toward ending abuse.

Awareness and Action

During October, communities organize educational programs, professional training for law enforcement and healthcare workers, fundraising events, and public awareness campaigns. Hotlines and shelters work to ensure that help is available for anyone in need. The purple ribbon has become the symbol of the movement, a visible sign of solidarity with survivors and a reminder that abuse should never be tolerated.

How You Can Help

Even small actions can have a big impact:

• Educate yourself about the signs of abuse and available resources.
• Reach out to friends, colleagues, or neighbors you suspect might be in danger.
• Share information about hotlines, shelters, and support organizations.
• Support charities through donations or volunteering.
• Challenge harmful attitudes that excuse or normalize abuse.

A Call to End Silence

Domestic violence thrives in silence and secrecy. By speaking out, offering support, and demanding accountability, we create a culture where abuse is no longer hidden — and no longer tolerated.

This October, let the purple ribbon be more than a symbol. Let it be a commitment — to stand with survivors, to speak up for those who cannot, and to work toward a world where everyone can feel safe in their own home.

Where do you truly feel at home?

Not your registered address. Not the place you were born. But that space where your inner world exhales. Where you can be yourself without fear, without masks. Where you're not judged — just accepted. Where no explanation is needed, because you’re simply seen.

Home isn’t just walls, keys, or furniture. It’s a feeling. A warmth you can’t measure. A scent that brings back memories. A silence that doesn’t pressure you to speak. A space where you can be strong or tired, joyful or lost — and all of that is okay.

Sometimes, we search for home in geography. We think: if I move, start over, change the scenery — things will feel lighter. And sometimes that helps. But only if there's grounding within. Because the most beautiful apartment won’t cure the loneliness of an empty heart.

And sometimes it’s the opposite — you’re in transit, in a noisy city, at a train station or in a foreign place, and yet you feel at home. Because someone you trust is next to you. Or because, for the first time in a long while, you’re honest with yourself. Or maybe just because — finally — your mind is quiet.

Being home isn’t a location. It’s a state of being. It’s about safety — not physical, but emotional. It’s about not having to pretend. About the right to be vulnerable. It’s when no one asks, “Why are you like this today?” — they just pour you a cup of tea.

We live in a world that constantly demands we perform. Be productive, polished, presentable. Keep it together. Be successful. And in that race, it’s easy to lose the feeling of home — even if you return to the same apartment every night.

That’s why a true home isn’t a “where,” it’s a “how.” How you feel around someone. How you speak to yourself. How safe it is to just be. And if you haven’t found that place yet — that’s okay. Sometimes, the way home isn’t down a street — it’s through an honest look within.

You can build a home inside yourself. One step at a time. With every “no” to outside pressure. With every “yes” to your own feelings. With every warm conversation, every quiet acceptance, every moment you stop pretending.

And one day, you’ll realize: it doesn’t matter where you are. You’re home.

We live in an age of unprecedented connectivity. You can message someone across the world in seconds, stay online with coworkers 24/7, post your thoughts and photos and instantly receive feedback. You’d think loneliness would be gone. But in truth, people are feeling lonelier than ever.

Modern loneliness isn’t always about being physically alone. It’s more about emotional disconnection — being surrounded by people, but still feeling unseen. You might be active in group chats, yet have no one to talk to honestly. Surrounded by “friends” on social media, but still feel empty.

Why is this happening?

Because digital connection doesn’t always mean emotional connection. We message, but rarely talk about what matters. We scroll through stories, but miss the pain behind the smile. We like posts, but don’t ask: “How are you, really?” Society has become fast, visual, and surface-level. But real closeness takes time, presence, and vulnerability.

Another reason is the culture of productivity. When results matter more than emotions, it becomes uncomfortable to simply be. We fear seeming “too much,” “too sensitive,” or “a burden.” So we hide our feelings, withdraw, and stay silent.

That’s why it’s important to say this clearly: loneliness is not weakness — it’s a signal. A reminder that we need real connection. That being heard and seeing others is a basic human need. That without emotional closeness, we can survive — but we cannot truly live.

What can we do?

— Start with ourselves: speak honestly, listen slowly, be present for those around us.— Don’t fear depth: ask real questions, share real feelings.— Don’t confuse connection with presence: what matters isn’t “online” status, but “I’m here for you.”

And above all — remember: you are not alone. Even if it feels that way right now. Chances are, someone near you feels the same. And they aren’t waiting for a perfect conversation — just a kind, sincere moment. Authenticity is a bridge. And each of us can take the first step.

Hey everyone, it’s Jared Larsen here.

I’ve been thinking a lot lately about how we show up for the people we care about. Not just physically, but emotionally and mentally. With so much happening around us—notifications buzzing, schedules packed, endless scrolling—it’s becoming harder and harder to just be with someone, fully and honestly. And yet, I’ve realized something simple but powerful: presence is one of the greatest gifts we can give.

Whether it’s with your partner, your parents, your siblings, your friends, or even strangers you meet while traveling, the quality of your presence can shape the quality of the relationship. I’ve had moments while traveling—sitting across from someone in a small café in Portugal or chatting with a local family in Thailand—where I was fully there, no distractions. And those conversations stuck with me far more than anything I’ve double-tapped on Instagram.

Lately, I’ve been applying this more consciously in my daily life. When I’m having dinner with someone, I try to keep my phone away and just listen. Not waiting to reply. Not zoning out. Just… listening. And the connections I’ve felt in return? Stronger. More meaningful. Sometimes even healing.

If there’s one small suggestion I could make—it’s this: be where you are, fully. When someone speaks to you, listen with your whole heart. Ask questions that matter. Notice the details. Remember what they say.

I’m not perfect at it. None of us are. But I’ve come to believe that practicing presence might be one of the most powerful ways to build stronger relationships, better understand ourselves, and genuinely enjoy the people in our lives.

So, here’s to putting our phones down a little more, looking into people’s eyes a little longer, and being human together.

Much love,
Jared

Hey, it’s Daniel again. Life with a big family and active hobbies can be a whirlwind, but I’ve learned that finding time to recharge is just as important as spending time together. For me, that means slowing down when I can—whether it’s a lazy breakfast soaked in syrup and stories or a peaceful evening walk with my favorite tunes.

Sometimes, I’ll sneak away for a few minutes of quiet journaling or grab my guitar for a spontaneous jam session in the garage. No one expects perfection—mostly, they expect laughter, off-key singing, and the kind of noise that only family can appreciate.

Balancing family life with personal time isn’t always easy, but I’ve found that when I take care of myself, I come back with more patience, more energy, and more jokes. Life’s too short to be stressed all the time—so I live by my motto: “I live with the perseverance of a Highlander,” but I also know when to pause and enjoy the little things.

So here’s my tip: don’t forget about you. Slow down, laugh loud, and find joy in your own way to relax. Because when you’re happy, everyone around you feels it too.